Is there a minimum number of guests for a small wedding?+
No. There is no minimum guest number for a weekend wedding at Ballinderry Park, and the whole estate is still exclusively yours, for 8 guests or 80.
What are good venues for small, intimate weddings in Ireland?+
Look for somewhere that is booked for your wedding alone and is sized for a small group, so the rooms feel full. Country houses hired for exclusive use do this well. At Ballinderry Park, smaller weddings dine in the Manor House dining room and up to 44 guests sleep on the estate.
Where do small weddings have dinner?+
In the Manor House dining room, a teal-panelled room with a long mahogany table. If your numbers outgrow it, one marquee on the lawn seats up to 75.
Is 40 people a big wedding?+
No. In Ireland a wedding of 40 is small. At Ballinderry, 40 guests can all sleep on the estate, and the venue fee for 40 is €1,350.
How much does a small wedding cost at Ballinderry Park?+
With everyone staying two nights, food, breakfasts and drinks, our worked example for 20 guests comes to €8,170 and for 40 guests to €18,630. The quote builder on this page prices your exact wedding.
Is there an all-inclusive micro wedding package?+
Yes. The Intimate Elopement package covers one night of exclusive use for up to 20 staying guests, with the Select dinner and a cash bar, at €197 per guest today.
Can all our guests stay at the venue?+
For most small weddings, yes. Up to 44 people sleep on the estate across the Manor House, the Coach House and the glamping village. Anyone beyond that can stay at the Shearwater Hotel or local guest houses.
Can we have a legal ceremony on site?+
No. The civil registration is done at a registry office. Your ceremony and celebration then happen at Ballinderry, led by a celebrant such as Lisa Chalfa.
What if it rains on the day?+
The ceremony moves into the Stables, which are renovated and heated. Drinks move into the drawing room.
Can we bring our own drink?+
Yes. Your own alcohol is welcome and there is no corkage. You can also add a bar package, kegs or a cash bar.
How do we host a small wedding so it doesn’t feel empty?+
Choose rooms that fit the group. Here a small party uses the courtyard, the drawing room and one table in the dining room rather than a function hall, and the late bar is in the Coach House, a few steps across the courtyard.
How do we secure a date?+
We don’t hold dates. The first couple to pay the deposit secures the date. The deposit is 20% of the total, with a minimum of €1,500.
Can we see the house first?+
Yes. Thursdays and Fridays usually suit us best for viewings, but we can work around you on other days.